Steffi,
I am so sorry to hear about your difficulties. Can I suggest a door number 4; Talk to your wife about what you perceive your three options to be and work through each of them together. Talk to her on a regular basis about how you feel about your dressing or lack of being able to dress. Let her know her opinion matters. Open communication is so important in any relationship and if you are talking to her on a regular basis and do happen to slip up, I'll bet she will be more understanding.
I fear if you choose on door number 2, your SO will catch you and force you into door number 3.
>> Lorileah, I absolutely love you. Your words are always so full of wisdom...
