Hi,
Ressie.
You,v not met me so dont know what im like and my friends ,
Yes i agree many women (natal ) are not chatterbox,s or do a lot of talking i know why though does not matter for this , , those of us who do talk a lot more than men and will, why because its how we interact with other women and we talk about family what we are doing and plans and so much more ,
with in our womens groups its all about womens issues life planing what we are doing or going those who work about work or what we are planing for our groups and outings , you see because we are the ones who run our groups and because we are closer to each other in what we do its normal for us ,
Hang ups and voice ,
Voice and smiling , as a kid i was known as the allways smiling kid ,
voice i never bothered about trying to change my voice and there was no need , though im a singer and have been in choir,s i knew my range between barritone and soprano and my voice changed any way ( to more in line of a female ) story behind that , i am a female any way ,,
As im in the public and as a PR person i have no issues talking with 1000,s of people , and strangers as well, friends who know me and been at my public speaking meetings have never said any thing ,
Though i know if you dont have that confidence to do what i do then yes i know its very hard plus your own self worth and self esteem and you need to know your strengths and weakness,s i do , so i work with what i have or dont so i can do what i have for some years now . I wont say its easy as i could not have done say 30 years ago what i do now .
...noeleena...