Quote Originally Posted by ~Joanne~ View Post
its just so easy to yell things out when your in a group or far away from the person

When I go out, if I am dressed, I am going to use a women's room or gender neutral restroom. I am not going into the men's room, that's like searching for problems, comments, or conflict. Thankfully I have never had to use a restroom while I am out. I understand your feeling uneasy about it though.

I guess you have 3 choices while you are out, use the right restroom as you present or deal with the BS, wait till you get home, or piss yourself. Your not going to change the world and I see no other way to deal with it. For the record though, while they may be a few, I don't think anyone here looks at using the women's room as any golden trophy, bragging rights, or anything along those lines.
If you say piss or crap your pants is an option? Well I guess that could be an option for some folks but I have never considered it to be an option. Using the mens can might be seen as looking for trouble but again its my choice at the end of the day and I will take my chances rather than having women and little girls look up at me as the big CD'er when I go into their personal space. It will be my struggle