In my many years of study, discussion, and debate, I have learned about the subconscious mind and its input into our beliefs, decisions, and conclusions. As well, I have wondered if this "I was born this way" movement is maybe a partial reaction to the unfair and incorrect religious ideology that oversimplifies our decision making, and if in itself may prove to also be an oversimplification. We are complex and highly impressionable beings. Here we are analyzing ourselves, justifying ourselves, and trying to explain ourselves to each other and to society. But in the end, it seems to me that we all arrived here for various reasons and from various situations and pathways. My conclusion is that there's no cookie cutter. But hey, if everyone was right, there'd be no one left.