hi nikki, as a cd r who lived in a dadt marrege for many years ,i will try to put my two cents in, my wife just hated to c me dressed ,it was a complete turn off to her,so i had to seperate it from one another. so when it came to sex i was the male 100 percent no frills andthat worked for us.she knew about my crossdressing she did not want to talk ,see or touch it, and you know the old saying happy wife, happy life. well my wife passed away and now i dress as awomen almost 24/ 7 and you know what i would give it all up to have one hour with my beataful wife. not a year one hour .u do what suits u but the human touch is worth more then any pease of clothing can bring. nikki i sincerly wish all the happiness life cane bring,but try to look at this from all veiws. hugs love lynda
