I think the worst thing we TG/TS can do is alienate GG's further if they don't accept us as partners, or our lifestyle, by shaming them. Like I said earlier they expect to be getting into a relationship with a cisgender male unless we let them know different. You can't force them to like it or accept it. Again many of us expect this being TG to go away but it doesn't and the reveal later on is not always intentional. Luckily we are beginning to change perceptions through education and the media and here on this board too, I hope.