....are you a Girl or a Woman or just a Man in female attire?
....are you a Girl or a Woman or just a Man in female attire?
I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!
Well unlike most here, I think of myself while dressed, as a part time sissy/cd. Or, a guy in a dress. I have never considered myself a woman, no matter how well I am dressed up.
I would say I am a girl!
BUT when I get home from work and quickly get changed I look like a man in a dress. Dresses are so much more comfy that jeans.
I'm a guy in a dress.
xxoo
Jennifer
when i dress i feel like me. im very passable.
Guy in a dress. I think part of the allure is the contrast of gender and possibly the escape from pressures.
When I die, bury me face down so the world can kiss my
Without doubt a woman !!!!!!!! ........................ I am off now to put on my tin hat and flack jacket .......................... ready Katie x.
A woman. If I dress I go all the way, dress is not enough! Hey it rhymes
When I dress en femme, I'm Kate or Ericka. When I dress en homme, I'm Richard.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
I dress enfemme most of the time but I never try to fool anyone that I am a woman. I just go about my business and field anything that comes of it. I was shoe shopping yesterday and the SA was being very attentive and helpful. She didn't ask me anything about my wanting women's styles. I told her that I liked to cross dress and that I wasn't trying to look like a woman even though I was well made up. She said that I looked about 50 and that she wished her husband would take as much care to look nice.
Rhanda
I would like to think I am a woman but in reality, strapping on a pair of boobs and a wig doesn't change who I am. I don't feel like "just a Man in female attire" though.
Carla,
Whatever is inside me dressing feels good for that part whether it's male or female ! I've been dressed all morning, working on a large painting, underdressed while I walked the dog now I'm dressed to continue painting. I can't think I've given gender a thought, it just feels right !!
I'm not sure really. I don't feel like a man when dressed but can't say I feel like a woman either, I just feel like I'm being me.
I definitely do not feel like a man when I am dressed. I certainly don't look like a woman when I am dressed. I feel absolutely FEMININE when I dress, and that is exactly what I like and why I dress.
Well I love to dress all the way but I do NOT look like a woman and I do Not feel like a man when dressed. If that makes sense to anyone
Sometimes I like to dress as Linda Leigh
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I agree with Stephanie. I KNOW I am a man, always have been, always will be, but I absolutely enjoy & treasure any time I get to feel feminine when I cross-dress.
Just a run-of-the-mill underdressing CD
Good question Carla.... One I haven't really thought much about till now. When I'm all dressed I still consider myself a male as it still gives me a turn on to be dressed. I do feel and outwardly show more female characteristics. Maybe it is just a way to bring out my feminine feelings or side that I have a tough time getting in touch with when in my male attire. Wife says I'm much more of a gentle person when dressed.
I feel like me......somewhere between a boy and a girl......but I know I still pee standing up
I sit. I can't see pulling down a skirt and then standing to do my business.
No matter how I slice it, I'm still a man in a dress.
What am I when I am dressed? I'm a guy who tries really hard to appear female.
How/what do I feel when I dress?
The snug feeling of my tucked equipment, the hug of my hip pads and butt under my shaper, the feeling of my breast forms on my chest, the bra straps hanging firmly on my shoulders, my smooth legs encased in sheer hose as they glide against each other, the soft smooth fabric of my skirt/dress dancing around my legs, the mild tug of my earrings dangling from my ears, and the flowing locks of hair caressing my back. All while being intoxicated by the clicking of my heels and the scent of my perfume, glancing down now and then to get views of my painted nails, my shimmery hose and shiny patent shoes... Can you tell that I enjoy these feelings??
Because of all these different sensations, I can sometimes fool myself into feeling like what (I imagine) a woman feels like. But am I a female? No. Does that bother me?... Not in the slightest. Not when it's this much fun.
Girl. Stuck in adolescence. There's no sexual urges for me when I'm dressed as a female.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
I have to say that I'm not prone to over analysis in the main, but a good question deserves a reasonable thought in return.
Adriana sums it up for me, but I refuse to stand to pee when dressed. In my erstwhile opinion, that's equivalent to sitting with my legs apart whilst wearing a skirt .
I know I'm male under the bonnet (hood) and that will never change, but dressing releases a certain 'je ne sais quoi' in me and I don't feel the need to be all man, if that makes sense. This probably explains why I don't go in for deep thinking as I tend to drown when I do .
All in, I is what I is...CD with blurred gender presentation desires.
Rebecca
Last edited by reb.femme; 04-07-2015 at 12:37 PM.
Hi Carla,
Interesting question . . . Well, genetically and physically I am a man (can't/won't change that) . . . outwardly appearance to the world . . . I am a person irrespective of how I am dressed .
Hugs
Isha