From my early teens, I have been attracted to both males and females. However it wasn't until my early 40's that I truly accepted that I'm BI and that it is ok to be BI. Throughout the years I suppressed my attraction to other men, or had casual encounters when the urge was too strong. It was also in my early 40's that I accepted that I was a cross-dresser, and always have been. It took me quite a long time to be able to separate the two and realize that my sexual orientation and my gender presentation were completely separate and unrelated.
I'm currently in a heterosexual relationship with an absolutely awesome and totally accepting woman who accepted from day one that I was BI and a cross-dresser. I'm able to control my urges and desires to be with a man - I think that the fact that she knows they are there helps. She points out good looking men to me when we are out and about - and we both admire from afar. She also supports that I'm a cross-dresser - whenever we travel to the US, we BOTH can't wait to find a Dress-Barn :-)
