Well it happened again the other day. My wife and I are in a somewhat loose DADT relationship. She knows and is tolerant of my dressing, but doesnt really care to see me dressed. We have agreed that she will call when on her way home so I can change before she gets home if I have dressed up as Renee. She was staying with an elderly friend for a couple of days while her family was gone out of town. I didnt dress the first night as I was too tired from work and mowing the yard. We talked on the phone before bed and nothing was said about whether I had dressed or not. The second night I got home early from work and got dressed to do some secretarial work in our home office for my wife's work. I do all of her ordering, inventory, invoices, and book work. Then I did some laundry and cleaned the house a little. About bedtime my wife called and we talked for about a half hour. It was then that she asked what outfit I was wearing. I told her that I was wearing my black and white stripped skirt with my black lace blouse, a shrug, black hose, and my black beaded stilettos. She said nice outfit, and then told me that she knew that I was dressed by my voice. She said that when I am dressed my voice inflections and tone are quite feminine. I said that I didnt realize it, but that I guessed it was because the Renee part of me just comes out when I dress. Then she said that she knew I wasnt dressed the night before because my voice was my regular voice. She has said this before, but I had forgotten. I am sure that I am not the only one that takes on a full feminine persona when I dress. Has anyone ever brought this up to you?