Abby
For me I have to keep moving forward. When I first came out to my wife little steps helped. I know what Melissa means but for me building a female wardrobe helped. I warn you however that the further you go and the closer you get to being you the worse the Dysphoria gets when you are forced to present as male. That is true for me anyway. Yes I have wonderful authentic moments now I wouldn't trade. However, I am acutely aware when I am not me now. I used to have it hidden so deeply it was a faint murmur. Not now! So if you know you are one of us you have to start this moment!
Suzanne
