What connotations does "gurl" have to you here in our crossdressing circles? I've run into the term here a few times and I'm quite fond of it. Please give some context why you feel that way if you choose to reply.
Chris Crossed:
I feel entitled to think of myself a "gurl" when I talk girl-talk with my friend. I love participating in girly interactions with her, however I feel it's important and fair to her that I make a little qualification by replacing just the i in g(i)rl with a u. I do it because there is an element of pretending; I'm trying on my girly persona in a playful way. When I talk girl-talk I want to defer to and give respect to my friends qualifications and experience at being a Girl-Girl.