I found myself wanting to talk to yet another person about my "tg-ness"... and tbh, I'm still on the fence. Not because she wouldn't be trustworthy (she has a trans child), and not because I think she wouldn't "get it" ...but more because I'm not sure WHY I want her to know. At this point in my life I would love to transition, but I don't see it in my future. I've built a lot of life around passing as a "normal guy" and I have family and friends that I know, beyond doubt, that would leave me in the cold. ...so what is it that I'm looking for here? Any insight is appreciated, no matter how harsh or gentle.