A few days ago, I had a small breakthrough with my wife. She went shopping, and when she came back she had bought me some female clothing from H and M...sure it was pretty neutral, a couple of pairs of girls jeans and some semi feminine t-shirts, certainly not a dress or silky underwear, but I'm wearing them right now, and she seems quite settled with that. Small steps I guess, at least I am wearing girls clothing in the same room as her!