I am still processing two comments made by my wife yesterday. Of course you did not heard the tone of the comment, so your at a great disadvantage. Nonetheless, I felt compelled to write about them.
The first was when I was leaving to go buy a couple of shirts (male) that I determined I needed for work. Just basic dress shirts and the store had a coupon, etc. As I was leaving she commented "And no more underwear" referring to my vast collection of panties that I wear every day and baffles her as to why I would need more than a few pairs or why I want women's in the first place. She did say underwear and not panties. I assured her I was not going for more during this trip, and that was the truth. I wondered afterward is she just sort of accepting this part of my life. I wear 24/7, but she never really sees me in them.
Later as we cleaned up, she grabbed my manbag and said "I'm putting your purse upstairs" (We had company coming)There did not seem to be any negativity in the tone, but more just a statement of fact. Note this bag is hardly a purse, although she sees it that way. It is a brown canvas rough looking crossbody bag about 10 " x 10" and sold on ebay for guys. I would much rather carry a black leather bag that truly looked like a purse, but take what I can get. I really do dislike carrying my phone, wallet, etc in my jeans and like it all in one spot.
I am hoping and praying that this is just a little indication that she sees these are just things in life and nothing to fret about. Actions and how I treat her are much more important. I do my best to treat her very well. I know she does not want to see her man erode away, and I must fight that notion in this process. It is a tough one.
Traci