Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
It's disturbing that some members in this thread gave advice about disabling the camera rather than meeting this relationship issue head on with the wife!
Of course it is, but what else did you expect? We've seen members encourage bad behavior before, and it is all about taking the easy path. By hiding, and beating around the bush, they can have their cake...crossdressing...and eat it too...marriage, without having to have those difficult conversations. It is all about getting their way with the least amount of effort.

You are an adult and not a child. If it is important for you to dress when your wife is not there, you need to say so. You mustn't lie to her.
You need to be honest, Judy. There's no other way around it.
Some of us have been saying that to Judy since she first showed up here, it doesn't seem to get through. She's been taking the dark and easy path, rather than dealing with This Thing of Ours directly like an adult. We've been saying it to others for years...it often doesn't get through. I've said this before, but crossdressers are their own worst enemies sometimes.

It's very difficult to make judgments about all the complexities in a relationship when a member just posts one or two facts.
Perhaps, but we pretty much know what Judy's mindset is.

Veronica