I don't usually buy much at Kmart. But I was in the Key West Kmart the other day, and they had a rack of cute dresses on sale. I did a quick check of the rack, and found a nice tropical print, pullover dress, smooth slithery rayon, with an elastic waist that I was sure would fit, so I decided to buy it. I took it up to the register, and laid it on the counter, and the cashier, a lady around 50, looked at it and said, "Good choice. You'll look good in it". Caught me by surprise, but for some reason, I was not offended or embarrassed by the remark. I just said, "It's not for me. Valentines day is next week". She sort of persisted, in a light way, saying, "Well, it's still a good choice, and will look good on her........or whoever it's for". I just said, "Yeah, I hope so", and left. Walked outside with my purchase, into 80 degrees and sunshine, and it just didn't bother me. No need to call the manager, or get upset. Key West does tend to mellow me out. I'm not gay, but it's a very gay friendly town, with a gay mayor, and police chief, and plenty of gay bars and clubs. The towns motto is "One human family". So, if you are the least bit hesitant to go out dressed, Key West is the place to start. No one cares if you pass or not. Locals and tourists expect to see crossdressers in Key West, so just go for it, and don't worry about it. Jimmy Buffett summed it up nicely years ago, when an interviewer asked him about Key West, and he replied, "Nobdy here cares what you do"!