You are barking up the wrong tree - you need to look for straight guys. I noticed that as I transitioned, my breasts seemed to emit an invisible, gay man repelling force-field. Of course, it would be nice if straight guys weren't also so transphobic, because telling someone go hookup with a straight dude is easier said than done too.
You'd think the gay dudes would at least be accepting of gay trans men - that's a thing btw. Some are, but lots aren't.
I'm sorry you are encountering that difficulty - lots of us have it I'm afraid.![]()