Neither of my grandfathers would have approved at all. One would have been totally baffled by it and maybe would have made fun of me. The other would have been disgusted. He woz horrified when my sister came out as being gay.
In any case, they both died over twenty years before i discovered i liked to crossdress.
Sadly, my living relatives would be equally horrified, so the closet door remains closed to all except my wife and the members of this group.