Here is a Update, its only been 2 yrs my Late Wife ended up to be accepting and for a year and a half we had a lot of fun together. Shopping Dressing etc. But she was taken from me with Cancer fast. We talk every thing over at length for me to move on. And believe it or not just two weeks after I found My present GF of 1yr 8 mo now. She has found out about my past CD and doesnt like or understand it at all , and thinks I may be Gay or Bi , never have and never will , and have not Dressed since I meet Her . I have began to wonder if we will ever find common ground , We have lived together 1 yr and 7 mo. and she stays at Home . She knows but does not believe any thing about CD ......... HELP