hi everyone,
i have a huge problem and i am sure some of you can relate!
i am into women but i haven't had sex in 2 years mainly because i don't approach other women. there are a lot of reasons why, i am very shy for example. also i don't feel very manly and think that women won't think that i'm attractive because of it. but the biggest reason is that i don't approach women because everytime i see a good looking woman i don't think about having sex with her or imagine what it would be like if we were in a relationship. the first thing that comes to my mind is what it would be like to be her and i can't control that. my sexual desire is gone in these moments. and this is driving me crazy.
do you know what i am talking about? and if so, how do you deal with it?
best
luca