Female partners are willing to listen to cders feelings of femaleness. Women tend to rationalise these as opposed to the cders expressing emotionally how they feel. Many women will empathise with their partners situation but that is not to be taken advantage of; the female partner's own doubts and fears carry equal weight.
Why is it so difficult for a cder to consider these doubts and fears? Is it because cding is all about you? Imagine trying to console a crying infant who says 'Daddy, I am afraid of the dark'. You try to say there is nothing there, nothing to be afraid of, I'll leave the light on.....is that child really convinced that there is nothing there to be afraid of?
As with female partners who do not see their husband in the female display, who fear this other woman taking over their relationship, who begin to doubt their own femaleness, their fears are tangible. They can be dealt with but it takes time, circumstances and a lot of patience and understanding on the part of the cder. Some knowledge of how female sexuality is formed would benefit all cders in a relationship with a woman.
One point which must be remembered, and there are some out there who will not want to accept this, your female partner is the alpha woman in the relationship. Any attempt by you to be alpha or upstage her in any way will always be resisted.
