There's not a lot I can add to this that hasnt already been covered, but IMO, that up thereOriginally Posted by lostmyhubby
is a copout. It actually makes me angry lol.
I used to hide my feelings from the g/f's I had because I was ashamed mostly, but once I figured out that a woman can accept it as a part of me, hiding it can only make things worse, especially at the point of marriage.
If I was in your position, I think I'd have to make my feelings clear. As we all know, a relationship is all about compromise and communication, and going by your post, I don't think your getting either one, and you should be.