Anyway you look at this is difficult for you and your confusion and pain is real.
The hard part is over though in that he told you and it now can be something you can talk about. Holding this in for him
has been tough I’m sure but you both need to talk about it, you should tell him your not comfortable with the things he
wants to wear. Don’t let it get you into an argument.
Yes this not going to be easy but go slow