Juliette I remember telling my wife. Initially I absolutely and totally regretted it. The anger and disdain it created towards me at the time was unpleasant. Time mellows, sometimes. Time also allows you not to have to grapple with the mechanics of keeping a secret. This has been a huge relief for me. I don?t have to dress all the time, or even very much, but I have acknowledged myself. I am more complete and honest as a person. I have the potential to make choices with greater ease.
