Well I've not brought up dressing with the wife. I expected a very negative response based on how she has reacted to a friend's son who transitioned. Interesting thing is she is accepting of gays although she doesn't like it. I've tried to feel her out some with some jokes and she has seemed fine with that. She recently was playing on her phone and used one of those change your sex picture apps. She looked alot like our son in it. I jokingly said use my picture , bet I look like my daughter (everyone thinks she looks alot like me poor kid). Her response, I married a man not a woman.
It just seemed so negative given the situation. Don't see that conversation happening after this. Oh well.
Roxie