It?s Sunday night, I?m 57 years old and I have been joyfully single for 7 years after a 26 year marriage. I am my true self. I?m completely hairless below my head and eyebrows. I have a very feminine hairstyle which is colored with highlights . My eyebrows are properly plucked and I fill them in with a brow pencil. 99% of my closet is women?s clothes and shoes. I wear feminine glasses. My ears are pierced and I wear big diamonds in them at all times. I?m hanging out with my dog while wearing a maxi dress, cardigan, and feminine slippers. I?m securely tucked. I get pedicures with polish and am occasionally manicured. I see so many people on here who are frightened and afraid that their spouse will hate them or they will be outed. I get you, I was you. My need for being myself was not the reason for my divorce, but moving on was the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I?m finally able to live my best life. Divorce is not the answer, but for those of you so worried, please consider opening up because this desire will eat you alive if you cannot express it. The truth shall set you free. I?m free and living my best life. Godspeed to y?all.