The average girl prefers male characteristics in her partner.
Putting on a dress and putting on makeup are certainly not among such.
I don't know what qualities one would have to have in order to win the competition with another man who doesn't create potential problems with his gender identification.
There is no need to fool yourself, as an apparent cross-dresser your chances for a new relationship are statistically speaking - small.
However, they are not zero, as evidenced by some posts on the forum.
Try to put yourself in the opposite role.
What choice would you make yourself:
a pretty girl who likes to put on dresses, take care of herself
or the other:
preferring a masculine style, short hair, rather pants and loose blazers?
