Your analogy about going to the pub and telling the drunks that you want to stop drinking is spot on. Here you are in a forum filled with people telling you it's ok to keep dressing and you want our help to quit. I do believe you can quit if you truly want to, but I don't think many of us here will be much help. The fact that you're still here makes me wonder how much you really want to quit.
My life would be simpler if I didn't dress, but I like it, and don't plan on quitting. So I keep hanging around.
Good luck to you.
