Ladies,
Ok...its been 6 weeks since she found out and she is fine with it. She really has no problems or hangups about it. Our love life is better than ever and we are actually better together now than ever before. Last night I was laying in bed looking at all the pretty gals in gowns giving my commentary as my wife laughed. She asked if I wanted to talk about anything and I said no..Im ok. Five minutes later she asked again...and said really its ok. She said that she is not trying to ignore it but wanted to give me time as I seemed to feel more awkward about it than her (thats true...I dont know why).
The third time she asked...what can I do...then I shrugged my shoulders and said oh nothing. She laughed and said you need something or you would not have shrugged and the oh nothing <said like a sick puppy> was a dead give-away. She asked me if I wanted her to participate in some way but she also expressed that shes not at that level yet...and probably can not even imagine what "participate" means.
Then she asked me the question....so whats your name when you play dress-up...! Gulp...I literally ran to the bathroom in fear..I could not answer her.
Whats a girl to do? I felt like an idiot...meanwhile shes giggling in bed throwing out funny names at me...If she had said Elizabeth I would have hurled.
Beth