Sobe1oveGG,
Logical, well considered, and well said. That is why it is often so important for crossdressers and their wives, fiances, girlfriends, to come to some sort of consensus where neither party feels uncomfortable or that the other is being too selfish. For my own part, I once admitted my crossdressing to a close female friend I once had other feelings for. Had those feelings ever been demonstrated physically, I would never had let my dressing come into the equation nor throw it in her face. She liked my male side. Although I wish she could have joined me in cultivating my other side, that was never reality and I needed to work within it.
I think it is good that you mentioned that GGs being made uncomfortable by crossdressing doesn't necessarily mean they find the practice wrong in principle - its just a matter of attractiveness.
Best,
Gunda
