Hey Pocs....I know I haven't been posting much. Been having a bit of depression. I felt I had to post in response to this one though. I agree with a lot of the advice given to you in response to this person. Personally, the whole psychic thing is absolutely rediculous. If this person actually believes that then that is one thing that I would consider a red flag. I am a lot like you with the phone thing. I don't enjoy talking on the phone much. I also am not real big on i.m. I have messengers but I always stay on invisible. If I see someone online that I might feel like typing to then I take the initiative. I don't think you should feel forced to i.m. or talk to someone on the phone. Regardless of who they are. I think that the messages you sent are to the point and not rude in any way. If this person does not start respecting your boundaries and treating you in a more respectful way I would turn tail and run. That's just me though. You have lots of people who see the real you. Even if we aren't real life friends. I would rather have the whole lot of you as friends who really see me than a real life "friend" who doesn't get or see me at all. Big hugs to you. Taylor