Not Young but at 43 young enough. She was very supportive & loves to see pictures. She makes comments & helpful advice to her new daughter on what she could do to improve her look. My mom shared things with me that when I was younger showed me my TG tendencies and my parents even thought that when I was in my early teens I may have been gay because I was so feminine. All this was revealed to me after I came out to her.
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Hi Everyone: I didn't actually come out to my mom. She caught me dressed wearing her Playtex bra and pantygirdle along with her garterbelt and stockings and a great Olga slip. I think perhaps it was an expensive slip and she came looking for it.
I had been "talked to" 2 weeks prior about wearing my sisters things. I had worn my sister's black lacecup underwire and pantygirdle and left a stain in it that left no doubt I had worn it.
My mother didn't call me names or scream. She did make me get out of my bed and strip in front of her, then she took her clothes and left. She saw how much I enjoyed wearing her lingerie also.
One week later I came home from school and on my bed was a shopping bag. Inside was my first black lace underwire bra in my size 36B and a slip similar to my mothers but a size 18, and a pantygirdle like my mom's.
The best part is my mom acted like it was OK for me to wear my bra and pantygirdle at home. She had me strip and try them on and she saw again how sexy lingerie is for some teenage boys.
Never came out to her. Was caught with fem clothes in my bottom drawer, she found out I had a bi/crossdressing fling with a male friend of hers, and found out I took a trip with a trans to L.A. back in the 80's when I was in my 20's.
I recently told her- Since my SO and I are separated I had to tell her something and decided honesty was the best policyIt was! she then admitted to having some gender issues herself, hmm that kinda surprised me some, but she was never the stereotypical mom to start but we all love her to death and she has always been a wonderful supportive mother- even if she has some "quirks"
I've never talked to my Mom about it but when I was a teenager she found my stash and wrote me a note that get rid of the stuff. Nothing was ever said. I have thought about telling her now, but it always seems to slip by. I'm not sure what it would accomplish anyway since she is 77 and there isn't any need for her to know though I would love to talk to her about it.
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Mum used to often find her and my sister's things around me but never actually wearing them. Was convinced I was turning into one of those 'wierdies'. She's dead now but I guess she always knew cos mums do don't they?
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I am not out (I live with my parents). But I have a feeling that my mum knows.
She has noticed me wearing makeup, and I am growing my hair (which is now collar-length).
Even wore a cotton skirt that looked like shorts in front of her in the kitchen -only for about a minute, but she must have seen!!
Mom found my stash of hose when I was really young. Years later she found my sister's dress in my room. A couple times, she noticed some things in the bathroom were disturbed. She had me throw the stash away. She was angry when she told me to put my sister's dress back. The other times, she didn't act like she assumed it was me. Years later, I needed to dress like a girl for something and she helped me. No comments. Later, I admitted to putting the hose on since then and she acted like she didn't approve and didn't further the conversation.
That's the extent of that! Maybe I will tell her one day...
I told my mom about a year ago. Her response was "I love you no matter what, just becareful where and where you do it"
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I was in my late thirties when I told my mother. I needed a skirt shortened, so I told her, then asked her to hem my skirt!
I have been considering telling my mom. I still live at home, and I'm 21. I'm sincerely doubt there would be a negative reaction, but the reason I haven't yet is it is one of those "Once you let the cat out of the bag, you'll never get back in" type of things. So I have no doubt my mom would be re-assuring, telling me I'm her child and she loves me no matter what. My father on the other hand, I don't know how he'd react. It would probably be a "Um...okay. Whatever. Lets never speak of this again, and pretend it didn't happen."
About 11 got caught wearing nail polish - did you know it doesn't wash off with water or even soap - bright eh???
Teens wrote her a letter, got told it was just a phase
20's, Didn't realise you were still into that
30's, I hope you will be happy....
Always supportive, just disappointed.
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I can not ever tell my mother,or anyone,except you guys.I'm guilty of goingOriginally Posted by naughtygal
into her nylons drawer&taking a fresh,unopened pkg of pantyhose,then putting
them on&proceeding to try on most or all of her wardrobe&my favorites were
her short mini skirts&silk blouses&a pair of her black heels.Sometimes I would
dress in one of her good short skirtsuits/w one of her white silk blouses&one
of her many pairs of shoes,mostly heels.One day,I tried on a pair of her dress
slacks,they fit perfectly&I added a top&jacket,then stepped into a pair of stiletto heels,it felt electric
I came out to my mom. she was and still is
supportive.
cindi
Hey there b'more girl!! I love Baltimore, it's a wonderful city!
Everyone in my family knew I liked to dress in girls clothes.
It was Halloween, '60 maybe '61. I was 5-6 yr's old and their was a dance at the Boy's Club down the street. My mom insisted that my older sister take me. I was so excited...I was supposed to be clown. Turned out that I looked more like a girl (I don't think my sister wanted to take me). She put me in a little dress, red wig and made up my face. My first reaction was "this ain't no clown"!! Then I looked in the mirror again...and it was ok. When we got there it was kinda scary, 'cause she ditched me. I felt like crying but I didn't. I just walked around watching all the big kid's until I found her.
In my minds eye at this time the only song I remember is "The Twist".
Sorry, kinda went off to never never land.
Anyway, I never got caught red-handed ('cept when my mom walked in on me masturbating around 12, now that was embarrassing!!) I pretty much "outed" myself...I remember my sister yelling at the top of her lungs "Mom, make him stay out of my drawer's!!!"
Sorry for the long post, this thread really stirred up the memories.
sugar
No but I think she suspected it .
Ya i came out to my mom.... the first time it wasn't good at all,she freaked out, saying things like its not normal, if she knew i was doing stuff like that when i was young, she would have taken me to a head shrink to get fixed blaaa blaaa. I had a talk with her just the other day about it, and was a lot better, saying we have to find happiness, and do what makes you happy, so its better, but she still doesn't wish to see me this way.
i also never got caught by my mother but i found out my sister knew on my birthday she left me a presdent it was a skirt bra and pantyhose my sizes and after i open it she walk in to tell me she knew and it was our secret im a girl
When I reached the point that I decided to stop fighting the desire to cross-dress I chose to talk to my little sister and then later to my mother. Neither one understood where the desire came from, but the understood that this was something I had to explore, each has listened to me talk about my feelings with a sympatric ear. My mother did not know my sister knew and my sister did not know my mother knew, so when it came to pass that my mother’s time was up on this world she knew I would need someone to talk to so she decided to tell the one of my sisters that she thought world not judge me, about a year later I married and made sure that before we got too involved my wife to be knew that I cross dressed. Not having to hide my secret from everyone has been of great help
I would never do that to her, would freak her out. No point in that.
She knows... and she's cool... but I didn't tell her when I was young. I don't think it was because I feared rejection, rather that at that time in my life I didn't want acceptance... Does that make sense?
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never come out to my mom .. just .. err . caught red-handed one morning ..
My mother was the first to catch me. With the threat I'd have to dress for my siblings I purged for at least 4 years.
Oh?? Please share the story with usnever come out to my mom .. just .. err . caught red-handed one morning ..
Kandis
Someone once told me "Put on Your big girl panties and deal with it". If they only knew, I WAS ALREADY WEARING THEM.
I wear the bras and panties so my wife doesn't have to.
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I was never caught either, but i'm sure mom new i was up to something. I can remeber being about 5 yrs old and asking if i could wear my sisters tights. of course the answer was no! I didnt take no for an answer and here i am. Steph
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