I second this. But I also dont think that CDing does anything "special" to Lucas personality. He is who he is regardless of what clothes he likes to wear. being a CDer doesn't make him any more loving, caring, or more fun. He is who he is regardless of in a skirt or pants. So even thought I know, and I am accepting, it doesn't actually mean that if i "didn't know" that I would be missing out on anything positive.