I wouldn't reject anyone simply because they are a man or woman, trans or not. Some people are jerks, most are not. Up close, I'm not particularly passable, but in supermarkets and stores I get more smiles and frowns. Actually most people ignore me. In the "being hit upon contest" I'm actually a dollar ahead of Melissa (lol), but in both cases I found it rather amusing. In bars I tend to be a flirt and some men flirt with me -- some women too -- but it's all in fun. Liten up, please. As for the comment about it being hard on a man to be rejected by a transwoman, I find that rather insulting.