OMG EMI!! LMAO! I'm laughing so hard right now, I'm crying a little...Originally Posted by Emi_
OMG EMI!! LMAO! I'm laughing so hard right now, I'm crying a little...
"I'm a work in progress..."
I'm too old to be my fantasy girl. I suppose a few years (decades?) back, and with all the information and experience this new technology gives us, I might have made a dream girl for myself.
I think I'm becoming a dirty old woman.
style wise yes. But appearance wise no. My wife is who I want I am the most attracted to.
Cool thread ! My answer would , my wife is definitely my fantasy girl. She is way out of my league.
That said I do try my hardest to project the image of the type of woman my male side is attracted to.
Can we turn the question around and ask if your fantasy girl is the type of woman you try to be? To that I would say maybe. The irony of the whole fantasy girl thing is that the woman I married is quite the opposite of what I would have said. My ideal was a tall, for a woman, dark haired, possibly short hair with a strong personality. Naturally I married a short blonde with a pleasant easy going personality who resembles my sisters. They do say we marry people who look like us.
My dream girl ain't anything like me in many ways and appearance is one of them. My wife doesn't also look a single bit like me
do not label me for i am unique
Yes. I make up and dress is a style that excites me, and I would love to have a partner who would accommodate my preferences. But no such luck.
So I do it for myself. I'm a guy with the kind of facial and body structure and hair that comes with it. I have somehow learned to filter out my flaws and focus on the things that I like (hair, makeup, clothes, shoes, etc.) when I see myself in the mirror.
My fantasy girl has changed with the years, Marilyn, Nicole Kidman, Lauren Bacall. I would never aspire to match them. My wife was a woman who fit my ideals. My GF was a reflection of me. So take that for what it is worth.
So additional question for this, those who DO dress as their fantasy woman, how many are fantasy dressers? Those who dress more for sexual thrills.
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I would say yes especially when I am going out to a CD bar where even the ggs are in danger of getting made. In a regualer straight environment I tend to dress tho blend so not so much then.
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There's some interesting 'clustering' to the answers so far... I'm quite surprised at the number who have married their 'fantasy girl' - or perhaps you've really just got mixed up with reality and fantasy...Isn't your wife your 'reality' girl? I love my wife, but she's not my fantasy... Admirable loyalty anyway folks...
I think there are aspects of how I try to look that are there in my head - specific styles or fashions, hair style or colour... so yes, I'd have to say some of it is trying to achieve a fantasy... but it is a fantasy and will remain so...
Isn't this two questions? Aren't 95% of us (or whatever the non-TS element is...) really fantasy dressers? Whatever the motive - whether sexual thrills or satisfying some indeterminate TG urge, or those who just say "I have to do this I don't know why..?" - aren't we all fulfilling a fantasy?
And sadly I must agree with Lauren... but Tempus Fugit and it don't go backwards... more's the pity...
Katey x
"Put some lipstick on - Perfume your neck and slip your high heels on
Rinse and curl your hair - Loosen your hips, and get a dress to wear" Stefani Germanotta
First question. Yes. I do dress up to be the dream lady, i wish i could have, but being poor and 60 and single, I have no realistic chance for marriage. Second question. I am not attracted to men, except a tiny few.
I would have to say yes, I do dress as my fantasy gal. But, sadly I am not my fantasy's girl guy!!!
Have to answer… Yes! I love the glamorous look and try hard to master that in my femme life. It's the look that drives me nuts. But to clarify, as a woman my desire shifts totally to heterosexuality, if you get my drift. A bit maddening at times, to see, desire from both perspectives, from the want to be with to the want to be like.
When lost, alone, or blue I know I can always get through the day, for I've always another shade of lipstick to make things right!
When dolled up I do become my fantasy girl... Short skirts... Sexy dresses... Big hair... Glam makeup... And super high heels. On the flip side... Since I am also attracted to men... No... I am not my own ideal guy... Not into short Latino guys ... Lol. I like them tall and beefy
No, i am surely not my fantasy guy!
Uh no, I'm more Spanish, not blonde and blue-eyed. Course I'd kill to be either a hot Spanish chick or blonde.
no....but I'd probably hit it...LOL....its just an extension of me, in the clothes and makeup I want to wear that the rest of the world finds taboo.
You are going to shoot down a lot of excuses made by a lot of CDs here if you go that way. 99.9% like to say "I don't do it for sexual thrills, I do it because I like how the satin feels on my freshly shaved legs in my 4 inch heels".
The earth is the mother of all people and all people should have equal rights upon it.
Chief Joseph
Nez Perce
“Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.” - Fred Rogers,
Hell-o Nikki, No, I think the way I look is just a product of the way I actually look.
My femme presentation is all me, and how I would chose to look if I were an actual GG.
Under the makeup is my face, no prosthetics. My wig and bra filler are the only part of my presentation
that is not the real me.
Believe me, if were talking fantasy here I would be frickin' gorgeous!
Much Love,
Kristyn
I smile because you are my friend, and
I laugh because there is nothing you can do about it!!!
Nope, no attraction to myself. But I'm not really a CD, as this is who I am. Although I do have a thing for brunettes, I look weird as a blonde or any other hair color.
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No, Judith isn't my ideal fantasy girl! She's more the female version of the male me! Unfortunately, the 'Judith' that I see in my imagination is rather more slim and elegant than the version that I see in the mirror!
Judith xx
Not really - my femme look is just another dimension of expression for the guy underneath all the makeup and sexy clothes
I don't become a different person when I change clothing. So I'll respond a bit differently. I would be attracted to a woman who is much like myself. Same level of attractiveness, same willingness to be attractive for and care for my mate, same basic personality, etc.. Problem is, I've only met one such woman, and she's 30 years younger than I am, and engaged to someone else.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
It may be hard to tell now but there was a time I was every mans dream girl. That dream was a nightmare!
Great question. I would have to say that my "fantasy girl' inspires me, especially when I first began to cross dress, but I am really just trying to find what looks good on me as I am not built like my fantasy girl.
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