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    Quote Originally Posted by Deborah Jane View Post
    Exactly, your statement assumes all Transsexuals [Crossdressers, Transvestites, Pre-op TS etc.] to be the same, as does the following..... "then men themselves".

    You are assuming both separate groups to think the same as others in those groups..ie all Transsexuals [Crossdressers, Transvestites, Pre-op TS etc.] think the same while other men all think the same as each other, but differantly to the whole of the first group.
    All men want one thing in a woman, whether they know it; is another matter since our subconscious influences our decisions. When you strip away everything all men say they want, you'll find an underlying thing which is common in all men.

    My statement states that because within the subconscious there is a female thinking/feeling mechanism, this enables the crossdressing etc. man to see the insight to what they're really looking for. While non-crossdressing etc. men don't have that insight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    All men want one thing in a woman, whether they know it; is another matter since our subconscious influences our decisions. When you strip away everything all men say they want, you'll find an underlying thing which is common in all men.

    My statement states that because within the subconscious there is a female thinking/feeling mechanism, this enables the crossdressing etc. man to see the insight to what they're really looking for. While non-crossdressing etc. men don't have that insight.
    Kate you are making assumptions nothing more.
    Do you have proof of this subconcious thinking/feeling mechanism that [all?] crossdressers, etc seem to have, while also be able to prove that all non crossdressing, etc men don't?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deborah Jane View Post
    Kate you are making assumptions nothing more.
    Do you have proof of this subconcious thinking/feeling mechanism that [all?] crossdressers, etc seem to have, while also be able to prove that all non crossdressing, etc men don't?
    Correct me if I'm wrong you're a crossdresser; so you think and act like a woman?

    The answer to that would be yes, so you have an underlying need to act and dress as a woman, topics on here which have people purging and then come back because of the need to crossdress, implies that subconsciously something is driving them.

    Therefore a man who doesn't crossdress, does he think and act like a woman? No, so the man who doesn't crossdress doesn't have an underlying subconscious need to crossdress.

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    I thought the meaning of crossdresser was “man in a dress”???

    I think you’ll probably find Debs is a TS not a CD. There is a massive difference.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NiCo View Post
    I thought the meaning of crossdresser was “man in a dress”???

    I think you’ll probably find Debs is a TS not a CD. There is a massive difference.
    Crossdress: to dress in clothing typically worn by members of the opposite sex.

    http://http://dictionary.reference.c...rossdress?r=66

    I'll give you some time to think about the philosophy behind it.
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    Still, it’s a man wearing woman’s clothing in this case…not someone who’s brain is wired female which is what a female TS is.

    Oh and don’t try and be smart by linking it to a dictionary…why don’t you look up TS in a dictionary, you won’t find any connection to a CD there.
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    Two things Kate

    1) You really need to stop thinking everyone in the transgender community is nothing more than a bloke or broad occasionally having a fling in the other gender's clothes and that we crave women.

    I mean if I am nothing more than a man wanting some hot tail and just like to dress in drag every once in a while, thank god! Now I can just turn off hating being born a man and can get on with my life. Thank you so much, you just saved me years of therapy and emotional turmoil, how ever can I repay you!?

    2) By your logic, you have an avatar in bondage so that means unequivocally that you have deep insight into torture because isn't every bdsm just a little serial killer waiting to get out?

    I don't think you care what other people say here at all, you have made up your mind and are just looking for validation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    Correct me if I'm wrong you're a crossdresser; so you think and act like a woman?

    The answer to that would be yes,
    1...Actually I'm not a crossdresser I'm TS
    2...I don't [and never have] thought like a woman, I know plenty of women [I've even been married to two] and I think nothing like them on most things.

    3...So, the answer to that is actually a resounding NO

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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    All men want one thing in a woman, whether they know it; is another matter since our subconscious influences our decisions. When you strip away everything all men say they want, you'll find an underlying thing which is common in all men.

    My statement states that because within the subconscious there is a female thinking/feeling mechanism, this enables the crossdressing etc. man to see the insight to what they're really looking for. While non-crossdressing etc. men don't have that insight.
    What would you call this "one thing?" I see much of what you are saying about unconscious life, but this 'one thing' you speak of is highly amibiguous and smells like gross generalization without explanation.
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    I think I have a better understanding of how I would like to see a woman dress.. And I also understand why it might be better to drop of the woman wearing heels in front of the store or whatever rather than have her wear her high heels from a very far distance especially if she had been wearing them all day..
    This is what I mean by "every guy can look like a girl from the right angles".. this is one of the first pictures of me dressed up.. very vague look.. almost fem...

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    It is not rocket science to know what many men want in a women. It also does not take a CD, TS, or GG to know this.

    Guys want the honey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Really simple!

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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    Discuss the following statement:

    Transsexuals have a greater insight into what a man seeks in a woman, then men themselves.
    IMNSHO this statement is entirely fallacious. It is also based upon a misunderstanding of what a transsexual is as evidenced by your later clarification extending this statement to other transgendered people who are not transsexual.

    I do not see why I would have an understanding of what men seek in a woman since I am only a man in body not in my essential nature.

    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    All men want one thing in a woman, whether they know it; is another matter since our subconscious influences our decisions. When you strip away everything all men say they want, you'll find an underlying thing which is common in all men.
    I find this statement to be offensive to men as well as probably being wrong.
    I know of men who genuinely only seek companionship and of others who are basically after a sex-object. I would never class the former in the same category as the latter.

    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    My statement states that because within the subconscious there is a female thinking/feeling mechanism, this enables the crossdressing etc. man to see the insight to what they're really looking for. While non-crossdressing etc. men don't have that insight.
    You are now changing your statement to refer to cross-dressing men rather than the original transsexuals.

    I don't know what cross-dressing men are looking for in a woman any more than I know what non-cross-dressing cisgendered men are looking for in a woman.
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