I'd really like some responses from those of you in a similar situation including the following:
- I've been CDing since around age 10
- My CDing now (as it always has been) is only at home alone except for the occasional underdressing and is limited to mainly lingerie and this is where I'm happy with it.
- I've been married for almost nine years now
- My wife doesn't know but I'm ready to tell her (I think)
How many out there have told your wife your secret after several years of marriage? How did it go?
My wife and I are going away next Wednesday (5/21) for a night as we do every six months or so.. always a good time to spend some time together with no interruptions from the phone, kids, etc. This is when I plan to tell her in the hopes that I don't ruin a really nice time.
A little about her... She is the kindest most understanding woman I've ever met but at the same time very traditional. We have had disagreements from time to time but have NEVER had an actual argument. My feeling is that she will eventually be OK with this (to some extent at least) but she may be somewhat shocked at first - which can only be expected. I also expect that she may be upset with me for keeping this secret from her for so long, but I'm hoping that my explanation for that (pretty much the same as others on here - the embarrasment, not knowing how common it was, and the fact that at the time we got married I felt like I didn't need to dress anymore and I didn't for the better part of a year) will be at least understandable to her.
I wish I would have known nine years ago what I know about this now. I would have told her before we were married and I think it would have been OK.
OK... That's enough rambling from me... You should have the general idea...How did it turn out for you?