Did you also mention that you're not gay? My exGF thought I was gay or bi because of my crossdressing. I think people generally assume you're gay if...
Count me as another one that always wears a bra, forms, and nightgown to bed every night, along with hosiery (usually pantyhose, but sometimes garter...
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.