Count me as another one that always wears a bra, forms, and nightgown to bed every night, along with hosiery (usually pantyhose, but sometimes garter...
I'm in a similar situation. Mostly she tolerates at best and hates seeing me dressed. But at times she is more amiclable than others. There must have...
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.