I think I mentioned, or at least intended to mention, that I had a similar issue. My Alexa had a yellow ring, and my wife had no idea what it meant....
Another potential issue is that the woman could say that you attempted to assault her in the restroom. In that case, it is her word against your word...
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.