I'm another one without any male underwear or nightwear, and whilst I do possess a formal suit and a couple of male shirts, these are only worn once...
Did you also mention that you're not gay? My exGF thought I was gay or bi because of my crossdressing. I think people generally assume you're gay if...
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.