Go into therapy with an open mind. If you don't want to be there and participate in good faith then definitely nothing good will come of it. Now with...
You might check with Rhonda Williams at Rhonda's escape. I don't think she is on this site, but I believe that she blogs about her riding experience...
Instead why don't you be honest beforehand and let your partner make that decision with the correct information about you rather than the information...
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.