JocelynG
06-17-2005, 01:04 PM
Hello ladies,
I just thought I would share a wonderful experience I had on Wednesday. First of all for those who don't know I am married and I told my wife about my dressing before we were married and told her I hadn't done it for some time, which wasn't totally truthful, but that I thought she should know in case I started again.She understood but was not okay with it. Well fast forward a year or so and the feeling came back once again so I told her about it.She was uncomfortable about the situation and didn't know how to react. Well fast forward a little bit further and one day she was going to place something in my dresser which had my only slip at the time.Well I panicked and told her not to look in there because I had something for her in there. My conscious was eating at me so that same day I told her about the slip and that I was dressing again.She was okay with it until she realized I also had a wig and she asked if I wore makeup too.Well that was a crisis in our marriage.Slowly she started to become acceptable to it after I explained that I was still her husband and had no desire to change sex. She started feeling comfortable looking at photos of me dressed but couldn't handle seeing me dressed.
Eventually she suggested a girls slumber party and even suggested a fashion show kind of thing. Well she chickened out with the fashion show but she went ahead with the slumber party only if I wore regular women's PJ's not a teddy,or nightgown etc. Well we had our slumber party and painted each others toenails and that was it. Then one day the whole roof caved in
I was supposed to have a girls day out with a friend of mine and I thought my wife would be working.Well that day she was called off and she said she would be okay with staying in the room while I got dressed for my outing. Well a couple of hours passed and she was gettting impatient and eventually got really upset to the point that I called my friend and cancelled our outing.After doing so she gave me a huge letter stating how she hated my dressing and hated the fact that she let my female persona to come alive and needed something different. For the first time in my marriage I was really scared. I told her I was done with dressing for a while and boxed (not threw away thank goodness) all my clothes,accessories etc away from our closet and my drawers. Well I started dressing again and told her about it and said she doen't have to accept it and I will just do it privately again when she's not home. Well one day I got home from work and she asked me why I dress and I expalined that it is a part of who I am and relaxes me.Well out of the blue she says that she needs to accept this part of who I am and support me any way she can.I was shocked by this statement and she suggested that we go jewelry shopping together. And then she said we should buy lingerie for each other and wear them. I thought this was too good to be true.
So Wednesday we went to the mall and went to JCPenney and bought each other some lingerie.Then we went to a jewelry shop called Claires and another called Icing and she picked out some cute hair accesories for me and I found several pairs of cute earrings and my wife liked them too.After I got off work we took each others bag containing the lingerie and went into seperate rooms to try it on. She got me this really cute cream peach short nightgown.We came out of the rooms about the same time and looked at each other She liked it on me and also liked the fact that I was wearing panties too.She wants to get me some necklaces now and go shopping more with me Now we are going to take the next step and I am going to dress for her.She still isn't okay just yet with makeup and my wig but who knows what the future holds.There is hope after all
I just thought I would share a wonderful experience I had on Wednesday. First of all for those who don't know I am married and I told my wife about my dressing before we were married and told her I hadn't done it for some time, which wasn't totally truthful, but that I thought she should know in case I started again.She understood but was not okay with it. Well fast forward a year or so and the feeling came back once again so I told her about it.She was uncomfortable about the situation and didn't know how to react. Well fast forward a little bit further and one day she was going to place something in my dresser which had my only slip at the time.Well I panicked and told her not to look in there because I had something for her in there. My conscious was eating at me so that same day I told her about the slip and that I was dressing again.She was okay with it until she realized I also had a wig and she asked if I wore makeup too.Well that was a crisis in our marriage.Slowly she started to become acceptable to it after I explained that I was still her husband and had no desire to change sex. She started feeling comfortable looking at photos of me dressed but couldn't handle seeing me dressed.
Eventually she suggested a girls slumber party and even suggested a fashion show kind of thing. Well she chickened out with the fashion show but she went ahead with the slumber party only if I wore regular women's PJ's not a teddy,or nightgown etc. Well we had our slumber party and painted each others toenails and that was it. Then one day the whole roof caved in
I was supposed to have a girls day out with a friend of mine and I thought my wife would be working.Well that day she was called off and she said she would be okay with staying in the room while I got dressed for my outing. Well a couple of hours passed and she was gettting impatient and eventually got really upset to the point that I called my friend and cancelled our outing.After doing so she gave me a huge letter stating how she hated my dressing and hated the fact that she let my female persona to come alive and needed something different. For the first time in my marriage I was really scared. I told her I was done with dressing for a while and boxed (not threw away thank goodness) all my clothes,accessories etc away from our closet and my drawers. Well I started dressing again and told her about it and said she doen't have to accept it and I will just do it privately again when she's not home. Well one day I got home from work and she asked me why I dress and I expalined that it is a part of who I am and relaxes me.Well out of the blue she says that she needs to accept this part of who I am and support me any way she can.I was shocked by this statement and she suggested that we go jewelry shopping together. And then she said we should buy lingerie for each other and wear them. I thought this was too good to be true.
So Wednesday we went to the mall and went to JCPenney and bought each other some lingerie.Then we went to a jewelry shop called Claires and another called Icing and she picked out some cute hair accesories for me and I found several pairs of cute earrings and my wife liked them too.After I got off work we took each others bag containing the lingerie and went into seperate rooms to try it on. She got me this really cute cream peach short nightgown.We came out of the rooms about the same time and looked at each other She liked it on me and also liked the fact that I was wearing panties too.She wants to get me some necklaces now and go shopping more with me Now we are going to take the next step and I am going to dress for her.She still isn't okay just yet with makeup and my wig but who knows what the future holds.There is hope after all