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marie354
02-15-2009, 07:24 PM
Since someone had started a thread about best features, I thought I'd start one about the worst.

Mine has to be my voice.
I'm able to switch from manly to girly easily, but if I lose concentration, out comes the man voice.
A few people have commented to a friend of mine that they thought I was a woman until my voice slipped to the manly mode... A dead give-away. (Oops!)

Well... What about it gals & guys. GG's & GM's can chime in too.

shesadvl
02-15-2009, 07:32 PM
Since someone had started a thread about best features, I thought I'd start one about the worst.

Mine has to be my voice.
I'm able to switch from manly to girly easily, but if I lose concentration, out comes the man voice.
A few people have commented to a friend of mine that they thought I was a woman until my voice slipped to the manly mode... A dead give-away. (Oops!)

Well... What about it gals & guys. GG's & GM's can chime in too.


Marie just be yourself....is your voice broken feminine/male?? or you have managed the art of tawking like us gurls/women....lol..but then there are women that sound really like men and are genuine females. When you are interviewing these women on a phone and you call them "sir"you have no idea that they are genuine females. They dont like it for sure.

Girlfriends of mine have brothers with quite femine voices, & yes they had transgendered/but in the end went back to male mode said it was easier....less hassles

I am a GG and my worst feature is that I am upfront and personal, some cant handle that, or reckon I dont listen...laffing...:devil: now with this nic what do you think....LOL or is that yes you can interupt when im talking:tongueout

marie354
02-15-2009, 07:49 PM
Thanks.
My fem voice is passable... I shift the pitch up a bit and soften it. It's pretty easy for me to do.
Around home I don't use it much. I probably should so it would become more natural to me.

Marlena_Sparkles
02-15-2009, 08:11 PM
Mine would be my voice. I still have trouble after all these years. Also my arms during the summer. To many veins stick out.:sad:

danielle_from_cal
02-15-2009, 08:19 PM
My worst feature is the combination of my hips and butt. There is nothing femme in that area. I really need to get some padding or take hormones or something (padding probably being the easiest). I don't worry too much about my voice. I just don't talk much. If I ever decide to go out a lot dressed, maybe I will learn sign language. I pretend to be female so pretending to be deaf is no big stretch.

Kelly Greene
02-15-2009, 08:29 PM
I would have to say my tummy.
I don't think I will ever get it flat

KarenS
02-15-2009, 08:31 PM
I think it has to be the size of my torso and neck. The size of my head would be next.

I struggle with a number of things but the torso puts me into a size 22-24.

I lost about 28 pounds in 2007 just trying to support my wife on a diet. I was feeling much better. Being a size 22-24 is motivating me to lose it and leave it off.

msginaadoll
02-15-2009, 09:27 PM
Im self concious about having a double chin/excess fat around my neck. Am hoping i lose it when I lose weight. Sme of it is due to fact i tend to keep my head down be nervous.

Mistybtm
02-15-2009, 09:29 PM
my big belly i look like a pregnant woman in a dress :o is the feature i do not like

2b.Lauren
02-15-2009, 09:32 PM
I am not happy at all with my tummy either. It is so hard to get rid of!

Marissa
02-15-2009, 09:35 PM
my tummy.. lost 20 lbs two years ago..gained most of it back.. sucks.. so back to the ab machine for this girl..

my mustache/beard shade.. haven't found the right concealer/foundation to hide it.

'voice' yes so deep.. women think its sexy, but this girl wants a softer voice.. funny thing, for the few times i have been out femme.. i don't even bother to try.. just say things most girls would say but try not to sound like a cat who got its tail stepped on...lol

Tasha McIntyre
02-15-2009, 09:38 PM
My arms and shoulders - too many years in the gym I'm afraid. I cannot got away with anything except total coverage with relatively loose fitting clothes.

The other attribute I don't like is my lack or guts to ever be seen in public. :doh:Even though remaining indoors is one of the wifes ground rules, I still don't think I could muster the courage to hit the streets so to speak....hmmm maybe one day :daydreaming:

Cheers

Tash :):)

Barbara Dugan
02-15-2009, 09:41 PM
I will have choose my nose and my lack of lashes

Marissa
02-15-2009, 09:43 PM
if my 'guy' side is able to speak his mind... i have to say that for those who see themselves as a fuller woman in respects to body.. there are guys/men that love that.. they don't want the model (maybe in some foolish fantasy). i will always remember the GF who was larger than most girls i dated.. I would have married her in a heart beat if all worked out. it was 'all' of her that made her so attractive.. she was fine with her 'imperfections', but it was her free spirit and great outlook on life that made her sooooo sexy..

i met a girl (lez) last night who seem to fit the same bill..she was cute but it was all of her..how she smiled and talked..etc.. so if she was staight (ok she was bi) and not attached, i would haved loved to get to know her more.. especially since she was acceptable to my dressing..

anyway..sorry.. love who you are..and look for the one who's eyes light up.. that is when you know someone sees your beauty... in any size..

sissystephanie
02-15-2009, 10:09 PM
I would have to say that as a CD my worst feature is that I am a man!!:heehee: Other than that, it would be my voice. While not a deep baritone, it is still a very masculine voice that I have never been able to tame! It was great for directing aircraft while in the Navy, and also great for doing telephone work. But for being a girl, no way!

Jacquilynne
02-15-2009, 10:13 PM
OH the self-conscious part of us all:

Yikes!!

My voice is a dead give away. True.
My knees are kinda knobby and most skirts/dresses look horrible on me :eek: True.

But if I had to choose the worst feature it would be that neck seems too large for my skinny body and I have a significant under-bite. Actually my whole face hurts my being able to pass well!! a real bummer!

Anyway, thats just my opinion :)

Jacie

linnea
02-15-2009, 10:18 PM
My torso, which may count as at least three features: waist, hips, and butt, is my most difficult area and therefore my worst.
My wishlist includes a more feminine-shaped torso, bigger eyelashes, rounder-fuller bustline--nothing that a totally new body wouldn't provide (HA).

JoanneB
02-15-2009, 10:19 PM
The worst part of me goes from the neck up. And I am going to donate my body to science fiction!

Joanne

Vicky Perry
02-15-2009, 10:21 PM
I would say my voice and hands :(

MJ
02-15-2009, 10:24 PM
everything :sad: but my nails

Linda Laman
02-15-2009, 10:24 PM
Definitely my nose. I have to lean backwards to stop myself from tipping over. My wife suggests surgery.

joann426
02-15-2009, 10:27 PM
i wood say to it wood be my small belly thats the worst thing on me lol!!

Jakob
02-15-2009, 10:30 PM
voice. hands and feet, they're too large.

suchacutie
02-15-2009, 10:35 PM
Up until I went to college I was the proverbial 90-pound weakling. I had tonselitis for the first 5 years of my life, in the era when antibiotics were just being discovered/used. That 5 years left me really small-chested, no arm strength, etc. Even my High School yearbook picture made my daughter comment that today I'd be called a "pretty-boy".

That made me smile since during my first year in college by body overcame all that and the genetics started to win. I'm a size 18 on top and a size 8 from the waist down, with good-sized biceps and all that. I throw a chainsaw around 6 weekends a year to get us the 12 cords of wood we need to heat the house each year, and that alone is enough to maintain these darned strong arms and chest.

That means loose tops, and long sleeves (thank God for air-conditioning!!!). Now that I'm learning how to deal with it, there are some advantages, but I'm not a small girl, and with no butt to speak of, it's a lot of work to make the appearance convincing.

My voice was terrible up until two weeks ago and suddenly I found the way to kill the lower resonance. Once it kicks in, I'm ok, but I still lose it every now and again. It does require getting used to that sing-songy girlspeak! I'm still a bit selfconcious about it...

(oh, my wife loved my eye makeup tonight...did she ever make my day!!!)

a happy Tina.

PretzelGirl
02-15-2009, 10:38 PM
I could cop out by saying my moustache, but I have control over that. I haven't really tried to change my voice yet, so I don't know if I can get there.

So, I will have to go with my smile. I do use my smile a fair bit, but it really isn't one of those good ones. If you look at some of the truly good pictures on this site, the smile usually plays a big part on how well they look. I just don't have it.

Glenda
02-15-2009, 10:41 PM
I also thought of many of the same responses......my face is too fat, I look pregnant (I think), my head looks too big in some wigs......but I guess the worst is my teeth. I have a chipped tooth in front that I haven't found the time to have fixed and I'm very self conscious about smiling in photographs. Oh how I wish I had a beautiful smile. I'm going to make an appointment with the dentist this week.

Krystyna_Marie
02-15-2009, 10:46 PM
My neck and double chin are most distressing to me, and the least girly thing about me (save for the obvious!). I find myself wondering HOW DARN THIN do I have to get before I lose it?????? My wife thinks 150 pounds (I think 160 - optimist!!), right now I'm at 182. Ugh, that's a lot of hard work and self-control - sad-sad!:sad:

Kisses- KM

Ashlyee Paige
02-16-2009, 12:16 AM
My beard growth! I hate having to shave then cover it, a pain in the butt!

Cristi
02-16-2009, 01:09 AM
Where do I begin? :doh:

Other than being over 6'1 with size 12w feet (in a womens size), I have a few features that make things a bit difficult. The two main ones being

1) Large hands and

2) Deepset eyes combined with a prominent brow. :(

There is just no amount of makeup that can make my eyes anywhere close to feminine. All I can do is resort to sunglasses when I dress.

Of course, if we were working on a wish list, I'd also have to add something about my hairline, and broad shoulders...

Great... now I'm depressed.

Audrey34
02-16-2009, 01:39 AM
My shoulders are too broad so I can never wear a strapless or off the shoulder gown, my tummy is too big, my posture is terrible (I stand slouching in male and female mode) and I don't know how to do a fem voice.
-Audrey

vivianann
02-16-2009, 06:16 AM
my voice.

Stephanie Stephens
02-16-2009, 07:19 AM
My Y Chromosome

Gisele
02-16-2009, 07:37 AM
Mine has to be my adams apple. Looks like I have a VW in my neck...LOL

BeckiB
02-16-2009, 08:21 AM
I have this uncanny ability to pick the wrong Lotto numbers! OOOH I makes me so mad sometimes....What a girl could buy for $150 million! New shoes for all my friends! LOL

Lisa Golightly
02-16-2009, 08:49 AM
Cellulite... *ouch* that made me wince... It's not bad... It's just there... Hate it!

ErikaLeigh
02-16-2009, 09:31 AM
Well here is a list, just pick one. :D

6'1"

No junk in my trunk

Junk migrated to my gut I guess. :eek:

13W feet (womens size)

My beard growth

Big hands

Teri Jean
02-16-2009, 09:33 AM
I would have to say it would be my height, being 6-4 is a challenge and second would be my legs are somewhat bowed. My youngest daughter is 6-2 and she has the same problems with her height. Keli

Alice Torn
02-16-2009, 10:47 AM
Way too tall, at 6'6". Huge hands, voice, long jaw, chin, broad shoulders. Good for sports, work. Not good for being out as a lady, unless, at a good distance.

sarahNZ
02-16-2009, 12:02 PM
I wouldn't say that I have any bad features. I am perfect in every way!
or so my mother used to tell me when I was little.:D

Oh sure not all of my features are feminin, I am 6 foot there is a start, my shoulders are far to wide to be concidered any good for a girl, so I guess you could say in one sence that my worst feature is that I have a male's body and voice.

On the flip side, all those features that make me a lousy "girl" come in real handy when in bloke mode standing on the door of the pub that my brother in law is the barman for. Not sure I would be any good as a bouncer without them.

So yes I am perfect in every way! thanks mum:heehee:

Nicole Erin
02-16-2009, 12:13 PM
My beard growth, mine is heavy and black. Of course it is always shaved but it is hard to cover the shadow.

Ralph
02-16-2009, 12:22 PM
Man, I couldn't pick a single one. I'm in terrible shape - 20+ years working a desk job with long hours that leave me no time for exercise has shot me up from a size 10 to a size 24, with most of that in my gut. My voice is a deep bass and cracks something awful when I try to speak higher or sing tenor. And the hair... fugeddaboutit. It grows out coarse and prickly and very fast; even right after I shave there are remnants poking out or visible just beneath the surface that no razor in the world can cut any shorter. Add to that chronic folliclitis - it's like my very skin is allergic to its own body hair - which leaves my face, chest, arms, and legs perpeptually covered with little zit-like sores even as I round the corner for the home stretch towards 50. I'm more guy than girl on the inside, too, so I'm not at all self-conscious about belching, sitting with my knees wide apart, picking my nose, or scratching myself in inappropriate areas... all while wearing my most comfortable gowns :battingeyelashes:

In short, I couldn't pass if my life depended on it!

Kelli Michelle
02-16-2009, 12:30 PM
The size of my face and nose in general, are my worst features. But, at just over 6'1" my height is an issue. I feel happyish with the rest, though I wish I had a curvier bottom. My tummy is ok, and I can mitigate most of the rest. I am not too worried about my voice. as, like others, I speak little when out, and very low, breathy when I do.

kimmy p
02-16-2009, 01:08 PM
My WAY over sized tummy. I might pass if I wore pregnancy clothing....

RachelTVG
02-16-2009, 01:50 PM
My voice.

When fully made up I'm a 5'11", 135 lb brunette measuring 37C, 27, 37 who has a voice that sounds like Darth Vader.

RachelTVG
02-16-2009, 01:53 PM
My beard growth, mine is heavy and black. Of course it is always shaved but it is hard to cover the shadow.



Dermablend works wonders for facial hair covering. Have you tried that?

Crissy Kay
02-16-2009, 02:08 PM
I would have to say, its my face and voice.

Danni Kay
02-16-2009, 02:13 PM
Let's see... too tall, feet too large for most women's shows (women's size 15), hair too thick to style in a feminine way.

Sheila
02-16-2009, 02:14 PM
My temper :heehee:

Deborah Jane
02-16-2009, 02:17 PM
My temper :heehee:

Seconded :tongueout

JoAnne Wheeler
02-18-2009, 04:24 PM
My overall size - tall and broad shouldered - look like an old football player

JoAnne Wheeler

Ashley_1962
02-18-2009, 05:11 PM
I would say my teeth... was never very conscious of the fact that I don't really smile all that much until I started taking a few pictures of myself dressed up.

Anyhow, I have decided to at least investigate the options and have an appointment next week with the dentist - may be getting braces for my 47th birthday.. :)..

dilane
02-18-2009, 05:27 PM
The bad:

1. My nose. From some angles and straight on it's ok, but from some angles it's really bad (to me anyway).

2. I'm too lean, only about 6% body fat, which means: my arms are veiny when it's warm, and my calves are ridiculously cut, so I have to wear PH which helps to smooth things out. Also not enough up top to get clevage.

Otherwise, I'm pretty lucky ... but we're never satisfied, are we??

charlie
02-18-2009, 05:52 PM
Hello Marie!
I too have the problem of voice. I'm never really sure in a noisy situation what voice I'm really using. I also worry about my face. Is it a man in a dress or not? Makeup helps alot, but enough?

Maria2222
02-18-2009, 05:55 PM
My big old square horsey man jaw. My large man nose would be next.

Kimberly Marie Kelly
02-18-2009, 06:24 PM
feature is my body shape and size. I am trying to lose weight to get into smaller size clothes, it would give me greater styling choices. :battingeyelashes:

tricia_uktv
02-18-2009, 07:05 PM
I have a spot on my left eyelid. Other than that I am a super model (ha-ha)

Tashee
02-18-2009, 07:38 PM
Oh I have many. But I would say my absolute worst today is without a doubt my Illness.
That Trumps all others.



But its my best feature to- It allows you to love to new heights and not care about the Joneses

TGMarla
02-18-2009, 07:40 PM
My worst feminine features would not be considered such as a man: my nose, my hands, and my forearms.

Nose: Too big.
Hands: Way too big and fat.
Forearms: Hairy. Why do you think I stick to long sleeves?

Karren H
02-18-2009, 09:00 PM
I don't really have any bad features.... well nothing a little makeup and some clothes won't cover!! lol

Jennifer Brooks
02-18-2009, 09:24 PM
My weight :sad:

CD Susan
02-18-2009, 10:00 PM
My worst feature is the ugly varicose veins on my legs. This will soon be taken care of as I am schedualed to have a vein stripping procedure to eliminate these unsightly veins. I can't wait to see the results of this.

gennee
02-18-2009, 10:33 PM
My tummy. I need to lose 15 or 20 pounds.

Gennee

Mary Jane
02-19-2009, 09:30 AM
My worst features are my hands. Large hands and short fingers. Not feminine at all. Sort of hard to hide something like that.

Kendra (Tx)
02-19-2009, 10:27 AM
For me...It has to be my height...Ok..Everything else can be "tucked", "cinched", "taped", "padded", and "trained to sound more femme"....But no one has figured a way to take a 5' 15" ( in stockinged feet ) person, down to lets say .....5' 6" If there has..I hadn't heard about it...:heehee:

http://kendra954.com

MsJordan
02-23-2009, 05:11 PM
I would say my weight but I hate the fact that I have big feet - if only I could wear a women's 10 or 11 - my shoe collection would be massive!!

Melanie R
02-23-2009, 06:06 PM
My worst feature is unfortunately my legs. I had polio at age 4 which left one leg shorter and very thin. This means I have to wear long skirts and pants and have to buy two pairs of shoes since one foot is one and a half sizes smaller than the other. Even with this feature I am blessed to have a 100% supportive wife who loves me for me and not how I am dressed.

denisecdfl
02-23-2009, 06:49 PM
I had a waist when I was younger, but not now. It would take massive breast forms and hip/butt pads for one to show, and then I wouldn't be able to find any clothes that would look good.

Tina B.
02-23-2009, 07:06 PM
Let's see... too tall, feet too large for most women's shows (women's size 15), hair too thick to style in a feminine way.

Danni, I can't help with the height or feet, but you can have a barber thin the hair, they make scissors just for that!

Now for me, I'm just to darn fat, but I'm working on it!
Tina B.

SometimesSiobhan
02-23-2009, 07:41 PM
Firstly, my stubble. It's very dark and I've not yet been able to cover it. Secondly, my facial bone structure is too masculine and thirdly, my voice is too deep.

docrobbysherry
02-23-2009, 08:25 PM
After posting here for over a year, not ONE SOUL has said I have a man's voice! So, THAT'S not my problem.:D

However, at my AGE, every part of me seems to want to travel to the South Pole!:doh:

Jeannie
02-23-2009, 08:26 PM
I think my problem is the total package. No matter how I try I will always be a man in makeup wearing a skirt and blouse in a wig and heels or flats depending in the mood. It is still freaking fantastic and one day I will go out in public fully dressed. It will be so much fun ( I think).

Jeannie

kymmieLorain
02-23-2009, 10:33 PM
My worst feature would be the area from my waist to my neck, way too big( read FAT)

Kymmie

JamieRohr
02-23-2009, 10:37 PM
i feel like my worst feature would be my shoulders. i cant help but think they are too wide =(.

Marjory
02-23-2009, 10:46 PM
Being male.