stepping out

[slamddoger]

you have to have conf. in your salf to pull it off to go out as a women you have to have a good wig and have to know how to put makup on to look good and know how to dress like a women would dress. you have to have conf. in your salf to pull it off

[Persephone]

you have to have conf. in your salf to pull it off to go out as a women you have to have a good wig and have to know how to put makup on to look good and know how to dress like a women would dress. you have to have conf. in your salf to pull it off

Very true Slamddoger. Someone (Dr. Leon Lessinger) once taught me that whenever you try to do something you need three things, "Competence, Confidence, and Caring."

Confidence comes from competence, you can't feel good and can't pull it off if you can't coordinate an outfit and do your makeup and hair, and if you don't feel mentally prepared to go out.

Caring is concern about others and you can't have that if your aren't already Competent and Confident.

Hugs,
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[Di]

True Slamddoger. But if you are lacking the confidence ...fake it till you make it. When we first started going out all the time....I would tell Sher Vizualize yourself being confident...then just do that...and it worked.She doesn't need to do that anymore.:)

[MJ]

confidence is important but the courage to go out in the real world is the first step but hey just have fun

[JoAnne Wheeler]

ABSOLUTELY - confidence and a positive attitude and coureage

JoAnne Wheeler