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Kimberly
06-21-2005, 02:17 PM
Wow... what a week. :p

Friday: I came out to a friend of mine, whose slightly younger than me - still in high school. She does drama under my old drama teacher, but I mainly know her through her sister, who is a year older than I am. I came out to her because it kinda came up in conversation my lack of female company, (ie. girlfriend,) and I said "shall I tell you a secret? ... I'm taking a break from women because I'm a crossdresser and am developing my fem side." - I've gotta say: she's very cool with it!

Second was yesterday; a girl I've been planning on telling for some weeks, and one of my best friends at college. I was going to tell her about my crossdressing as a reason for my depression a month or so ago... I couldn't express who I wanted to be. So finally, yesterday, I told her. "Are you taking the p!ss?" "You look like you are!!" ... "I'm not," I assure her, and after that initial misunderstanding we were fine - and she is offering much support and shopping trips.

The third and final was today: the friend of the second incident. She's also a good friend of mine, and the second person I came out to wanted someone to talk to about me (gossip? :p), and as we're all good friends anyway, I thought: why not? Plus, I knew she would be the kind of person to understand, and is a great friend. Hehe... her reaction? "COOL!!" (As expressed in my signature. I didn't think she'd react like this! hehe. It was great: the next thing she said was, "Oh, we'll have to dress up some time!"


..... :D Dress up!!?!? WOW! (*Sings*) Things, can only get Betterrr!

Oh, by the way girls, even though I said, "right... I'm not gay, or a psycho, or a paedo," none of them jumped to those conclusions!! A great thing, me thinks!! Views are starting to change!!

Ah, the youth of today :p

Tristen Cox
06-21-2005, 04:00 PM
Alright stop now you're making me envious:D Seriously though good for you. Times are certainly changing for the better everyday.

DonnaT
06-21-2005, 04:07 PM
:clap: :clap: Very cool, Kimberly. Can't wait to hear about your dressup sessions with them!

AngelAshley
06-21-2005, 04:33 PM
Thats the great thing about coming out to girls - some of them love the idea of dressing you up and helping you out with girly stuff. I had loads of offers! Gave me a right head start!

Brianna Kylee
06-21-2005, 07:38 PM
thats really cool, i just came out to one of my best friends from college. She was so understanding and then she told me that its actually interesting.

paulaN
06-21-2005, 09:22 PM
way cool, glad for you and your friends. keep on dressing.