When you look at a woman Do you want to become her?

[sarah-liz]

Hi all!

When you look at a woman (in male mode) What are you looking at?

My ex-wife even noticed but she didnt notice the real reason.
The reason I liked looking at women is to see how to become more like her. Even the looks and wondered if it was even possible to look just like them. Even that I actually wanted to be her. and wished I was. Boy if I only had 3 wishes! :)

When I looked at a woman (When I was married and even now) it wasnt out of lust. (my wife must have thought even my step daughter) Well maybe it is in some way. I looked at women because I wanted to be her. not because my male role demanded that I wanted to get into her pants. Yes there probably was lust in there but not because of what the women catching me looking at them might think. It was because I wanted to be like her in every way or at least have some of the beauty she had.

my goal in my life as a CD. is to become, Looks, beauty, features etc... just like a woman. I have seen a LOT of Sex changed men that still look manly. I do not want that. I do not in any way want any male features after my op(s). I dont want to go out and have people staring at me thinking things. (Hey thats a guy under that dress)

This is also another reason I dress in private and when I go out on a date its either at my house or his. Another thing is getting the act down. Doing the makeup styling the hair etc...
I have always said to myself if I could get to the stage where when some one looked at me they may think I am a woman and not a man in a dress

[Karren H]

Nope... Don't want to be her and don't want to be a woman!! I look at.... 1). Makeup!! 2) where did she get that dress. 3) Cute shoes. 4) really cute handbag...

Having too much fun in both genders to have to pick one permentaly! :)

Ohh. Welcome to the forum!!

[sarah-liz]

Thanks! for the welcome.

[vivianann]

No, like Karen said I look at the clothes, makeup, etc. however I want to be the woman that I should be, not the women I see.

[Vicky_Scot]

When you look at a woman (in male mode) What are you looking at?

A interesting question with a simple answer in my case.

What they are wearing.....clothes, footwear, accessories etc.

My wife always laughs because she says that she does not have to worry when I look at another women. She knows that I am thinking.....I would look good in that skirt or boots etc. :heehee:

Xx Vicky xX

[Melora]

Yeah I look at women ALL OF THE TIME!!
Some times I see a woman and not only wish that I was her.. I envy Her and give her praise for being Who she is!
I started thinking about your paragraph...

"my goal in my life as a CD. is to become, Looks, beauty, features etc... just like a woman. I have seen a LOT of Sex changed men that still look manly. I do not want that. I do not in any way want any male features after my op(s). I dont want to go out and have people staring at me thinking things. (Hey thats a guy under that dress)"...

Is it not kinda weird that the X-Rated porn ********, Actually do a better job at looking like females than the average sexchange gurls or the dragqueens?? In my opinion I think that they Do in so many ways.. Alot of the sexchange gurls look ... (soo operated on), If you know what I mean..
But God bless them and their change!.. I Love their Spirit always!

[sarah-liz]

Yeah I look at women ALL OF THE TIME!!
Some times I see a woman and not only wish that I was her.. I envy Her and give her praise for being Who she is!
I started thinking about your paragraph...

Is it not kinda weird that the X-Rated porn ********, Actually do a better job at looking like females than the average sexchange gurls or the dragqueens?? In my opinion I think that they Do in so many ways.. Alot of the sexchange gurls look ... (soo operated on), If you know what I mean..
But God bless them and their change!.. I Love their Spirit always!

Thats totally how I feel however I do not want to look operated on (Visably anyway) I like the smooth skin. Real breast's (not fake) you know the Sz FFF looks like water balloons if you ask me. As far as the pornstars looking better than real women I agree with you. I dont want to be one of those sex change looked gurlz or a drag queen. I just want to look like an every day woman.

I am not asking to be a 10 but if I can be a 6 or even a 5 that would suite me just fine. As long as I looked like a woman.

Makeup/nails is the hardest mainly due to non exp. I have cp that hinders my left side of my body and makes it difficult to paint my nails. as for the makeup that I'll learn in time. I usually wear fake nails but I am trying to grow my real nails out. I have done it to about 1/2 longer than my fingers but they do get in the way of things. like typing or even scratching yourself while sleeping.

[sarah-liz]

Nope... Don't want to be her and don't want to be a woman!! I look at.... 1). Makeup!! 2) where did she get that dress. 3) Cute shoes. 4) really cute handbag...

Having too much fun in both genders to have to pick one permentaly! :)

Ohh. Welcome to the forum!!

Thanks I am not really talking about being the person I am looking at rather than being a woman. but sometimes I do see a beautiful woman and do wish I had her features or was even her even for only a short time and hour would do my just fine.

Another freaky friday wish it could really happen :)

[Karren H]

Thanks I am not really talking about being the person I am looking at rather than being a woman. but sometimes I do see a beautiful woman and do wish I had her features or was even her even for only a short time and hour would do my just fine.

Another freaky friday wish it could really happen :)

If you want something bad enough you!!! Diet, exersize, the right clothes and lots of practice!!!!

[Chari]

Continue to observe all women - especially those that are in your age group or somewhat younger. There is always a lot to study in what they wear, their motions (walk, hand gestures, tossle their hair, sitting, etc), how much jewelry to wear, type of handbag, shoes, & everything else that presents them as a woman! As for your makeup, nails, etc, - perhaps scheduling a professional makeover, manicure, and maybe try a more feminine hair style, would give you more of a female image. It all takes time, but what ever you do, always be comfortable and confident in who you are!

[Kate Simmons]

In a word, no. If I did want to become a woman by GRS, I would be myself as a woman and no one else. The only real difference between the type of woman I would be and being myself en femme would be the obvious physical changes. Other than that, what you see is pretty much what you get with me, operation notwithstanding.:)

[jthegymnast]

I always thought no until my wife and I were watching the olympics in the summer. When the gymnastics came on my wife commented on the leotards and remarked on how it would look on me.

[Sharon B.]

Sometimes, but look mostly how she is dressed , how she applied her makeup and the way she carries herself.

[PrettyFlowingGown]

I look at women as my role models. When I went out saturday night dressed I basiccly took in ideas how my role models walk and present themselves. I've always loved watching Jane Seymour, Kylie Minogue, Eva Longiourio, etc. These ladies I love for their elegance. Not so much Kylie for elegance, but she is "petite" and has lots of style.

[Sarah...]

I do not in any way want any male features after my op(s).

Fair enough.

Depends on one's circumstances.

When I'm full time me, living as a woman, I will not be interested in denying who I am, what made me where I am now. So, what mught that mean? I have kids. My daughter wants to know if I'll walk her up the aisle and give her away when she gets married. I said yes of course, but it may be Sarah and not the person who looks like Dad now. So she said as long as it was me then she didn't mind.

She then went on to say that when she introduces me to friends in the future she would want to say, "This is Becky, my mum and this is Sarah, my Dad". Cos I'll always be her Dad. And that's fine by me. So, to the original question. Do I want to become a woman? Yes. Can I abandon all aspects of having been male - that physical AND relational features? Of course not.

The thing is, this is a new realisation for me, and it feels very comfortable indeed because it is honest. And it is my daughter and my wife who inadvertently guided me to reach this important milestone. :) So let's hear it for them!!

Sarah...

[StaceyJane]

To be honest, yes, quite often I will see a woman and wish I could be her.

[Jess_cd32]

No I don't look at a woman and wish I looked like her, not that often anyway, ok maybe a few exceptions:doh: I only emulate one and wouldn't want to be full time female.
When I look at a woman I appreciate any attractive fem features she has, legs, hips, face etc.. and if those aren't there at first glance a great personality goes pretty far as well. Real beauty really is only skin deep.

I do think 'I'd like to look that good wearing that' sometimes though when I see something I like on a woman. Like the pic I posted of one in the clothing section here in black leather:)

[Debie]

Sarah

I agree with Karen, I do look at a lot of the women I see out but it is because I am thinking about the dress, top, hair makeup, shoes, or wonder what kind of Bra she has on, as her breast really look good in that Bra and top or dress, but for me that is a norm because I love nice looking breast and wonder what it would be like to have them, but I would never do that either, I am very much in love with my wife and prefer to stay as a male and dress as offten as I can so I can be one of the girls at certain times.

:hugs:
Debie

:chained: Still in the Closet :chained:

[Dannie Lefae]

I envy the figure and the clothes. I think things like, "I wish I had an ass like that" or "I wonder if I would look as cute in that outfit" but thats about all. My SO in I have always been very excepting of each other admiring the way other people look. Our view is that it is more unnatural to expected not to look than it is to look, so that has never really been an issue.

Em

[Angie G]

I never wish to be HER I may wish to have the figure she has or the outfit, hair or shoes. And if you see a beautiful woman what wrong with thinking I'd like to have her.:hugs:
Angie

[Alana65]

When you look at a woman Do you want to become her?

Not necessarily to BE her, but I would definitely would like to LOOK like her........the figure, makeup, clothing :daydreaming:

[Hali]

When i look at well dressed women whose sense of fashion happen to impress me i feel like having the cloth for myself, the next feeling is not to copy her but am actually a woman myself...........i feel totally immersed!

[ruthie801]

Yes in a way I do want to be them. I took my name Ruth from my mothers best friend I had such a crush on her. One day I was dressing and doing my eye makeup, I was trying to do my eyes just like my dream woman Ruth. It was at that time that i reliezed I want to be her more then be with her.

[Ralph]

I have looked upon a woman with lust in my heart... for her clothes. I'm terrible about ogling women and looking at their clothes, wishing I had a dress/blouse/skirt like that, wondering how it would feel to wear it.

It's actually kind of frustrating because I love interacting with people, talking and joking and sharing experiences. So when I'm distracted by the clothes, I'm just as bad as the hormonally excessive neanderthal who stares fixedly at a woman's chest instead of her face when she's talking to him.

That said, no, I never wanted to *be* the woman I'm looking at; TS is a whole different universe that is quite foreign to me. I just want to wear her clothes :battingeyelashes:

ralph

[JoAnne Wheeler]

NO - I don't want to become her - I just look at her dress - her clothing - her

hair - her make-up - everything about her and wonder if I could incorporate

any of that into JoAnne

JoAnne Wheeler

"An All American Bluegrass Girl and Proud As I Can Be"

[kristinacd55]

Nope... Don't want to be her and don't want to be a woman!! I look at.... 1). Makeup!! 2) where did she get that dress. 3) Cute shoes. 4) really cute handbag...

Having too much fun in both genders to have to pick one permentaly! :)

Ohh. Welcome to the forum!!
Ditto here, although in my mind I'll be critical if I don't like something like "that makeup isn't right, or that dress isn't my style etc. etc.

[renee k]

When I look at another woman. I look at how she's put together if you will. The hair, makeup, and the outfit she's wearing. And if she's has some feature that I really like, hairstyle for instance. I'll compliment her on it.

[xAnne_Mariex]

Nah, i'd like to look like her when dressed up but I wouldn't want to actually be a woman, I like both worlds.