Transgendered friend

[janexx]

Now here is something I find interesting and a bit personal.... I mentor people in my business when in drab and have been mentoring, at a distance due to circumstances not choice, a post op M to F. I think she has great personality & charm but she still refers to the past much more than I expected. I.E her CV refers to her cildren as a M & her wife. OK, but I do find it puzeling that after all that trouble she still clings on to her M past so much. The circumstances are I could get her much more work if she just arrived as her Fem self without all that bagage - and I dont think most of the folk who would work with her would mind at all that she was transgendered - but they do find it a bit strange that she, sort of, still hasen't decided.

Any views?

Much love,

Jane

[JoAnne Wheeler]

Well, my younger brother is a MtoF (had SRS) and he (she) still refers to the

past when she was a male - I mean the past is what is is - you can't change

it.

JoAnne Wheeler

"I'm an All American Bluegrass Girl and Proud As I Can Be"

[Sarah...]

My reply here...

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?p=1631055#post1631055

...might offer a perspective.

Sarah...