cindym5_04
03-18-2009, 08:19 AM
Hey girls!! Sorry for my rambling, but I had to continue to share.
I posted the other day that my wife brought up that she wanted me to dress sometime soon and for us to start going out again. It's Wednesday and I'm so excited because we just may be doing it this weekend.
She brought up a couple more things in a discussion last night, too. I told her that I think I need to go shopping, since I've gained a little weight since I was dressing before and of course, I need to feel sexy if we're going out. She said she's sure we have things that will fit me. I'd still like to go get something new. She said she'd also like us to find a couple to go out with when we go so that she'll have others to talk to and hang out with. I posted a thread on that in the Meeting Place area. She said that she also mentioned specifically a "couple" because she posted on Craigslist before to meet strictly platonic couple friends and only got responses from single t-girls who were going off about how they'd like to hook up with us- which isn't what we're looking for. Because of that, she's gotten a certain "bad vibe" when it comes to single cd/tv/ts.
I told her about how I come in here and read and respond to some posts and that it's been my experience in here that everyone isn't looking to "hook up" like that. I told her pretty much what goes on- people with questions or sharing stories or looking for support and also about the section for GG's too. She may end up signing on and getting a screen name and all.
I swear, it's been such a shocking week!! I haven't really dressed in almost a year due to time constraints and other stuff going on and it just hasn't/hadn't been as high of a priority, though I've definitely thought about dressing. I just feel like I'm in such a whirlwind right now. I just hope that when we do end up going out, that I'm able to look really good and that she'll think that I look hot. **crossing fingers**
I posted the other day that my wife brought up that she wanted me to dress sometime soon and for us to start going out again. It's Wednesday and I'm so excited because we just may be doing it this weekend.
She brought up a couple more things in a discussion last night, too. I told her that I think I need to go shopping, since I've gained a little weight since I was dressing before and of course, I need to feel sexy if we're going out. She said she's sure we have things that will fit me. I'd still like to go get something new. She said she'd also like us to find a couple to go out with when we go so that she'll have others to talk to and hang out with. I posted a thread on that in the Meeting Place area. She said that she also mentioned specifically a "couple" because she posted on Craigslist before to meet strictly platonic couple friends and only got responses from single t-girls who were going off about how they'd like to hook up with us- which isn't what we're looking for. Because of that, she's gotten a certain "bad vibe" when it comes to single cd/tv/ts.
I told her about how I come in here and read and respond to some posts and that it's been my experience in here that everyone isn't looking to "hook up" like that. I told her pretty much what goes on- people with questions or sharing stories or looking for support and also about the section for GG's too. She may end up signing on and getting a screen name and all.
I swear, it's been such a shocking week!! I haven't really dressed in almost a year due to time constraints and other stuff going on and it just hasn't/hadn't been as high of a priority, though I've definitely thought about dressing. I just feel like I'm in such a whirlwind right now. I just hope that when we do end up going out, that I'm able to look really good and that she'll think that I look hot. **crossing fingers**