I must admit!!

[Ediosa]

The more I have been going out in the afternoon, the more confidence I have been getting. Just last week, I went out for the first time in the afternoon. Now, I have been out every day of the week except the weekends cause of my son. So when he's in school, Elizabeth comes out. Now, like I said, I have been getting more and more confident. I only have 2 things I am majorly scared of when I go out. One is talking, aaarrrggghhh, I hate my soft voice but I need to practice. The other was going to a female bathroom. Well, both finally happened. Yesterday, I went to St. John outdoor mall. It's new and has a lot of major stores(Louis Virton, St. Johns, etc.). Well, I was at the Dillard's there and I was trying out some clothes(it is funnier when your dressed cause you see the whole ensemble). Well, while putting my shirt back on, I got lipstick on my shirt(in front). I couldn't walked around like that, I was too embarrassed, therefore, I had to buy a new one. After I bought my new one, I had to change into the new one. Well, where too go. That's right the female bathroom. I just relaxed and went inside. I found the biggest(handicapped) stall and went inside. I changed my shirt, and went to check my makeup. 2 females were inside and didn't do or say anything. I was overjoyed. Next, it was using my voice. Since, like I said I am getting more and more confident. Well, today I had to turn in my admission paperwork to the University of North Florida, and got dressed up. Well, I decided to turn in the paperwork without having to talk to anyone. Well, that didn't happen. I had to talk to one admission advisor but only said that I am there to turn in my paperwork and if there is a question to just call me. Next, I felt soooo good that I had to change my address in one of my bank. I had to practice and were better than the bank. I went inside, signed my name in to talk to an advisor, and then sat down. A gentlemen tried to talk to me and asking me question about what the bank needed. No response of "OMG, your a man?", well I was called and went inside with the gentlemen inside the bank. He asked me, "How can I help you?". With the best voice I had I told him, "I need to change my address in all my accounts." Well, he asked me for my License(it's a man in the picture), and proceeded to do his job. He even noticed that I was a Red Sox fan, and he started talking to me as though I was a regular customer. I talked as best I could in my female voice, probably not doing very good, but he didn't act any better. At the end he, return my License and said "you have a nice day, ma'am."

Therefore, I must admit that a lot and I mean a lot of people, just don't really care. Either they don't know or just really don't care. It was fun and amazing.

I also must admit that I am hating taking off the clothes prior to my son arriving from school. I love been dressed up and enjoy it tremendously, especially when I am all glammed up. Today I had a knee high skirt, with 4" high heels, black sheer stockings(I love these), and a nice top. I felt very femme and enjoyed my shopping.

What can you guys admit?

[JoAnne Wheeler]

Very nice post - confidence and determination are everything - plus it does

not hurt when one is as attractive as you


JoAnne Wheeler

[Ediosa]

not hurt when one is as attractive as you


JoAnne Wheeler


JoAnne- Thank you!!!! You made me feel like a million dollars. :o:battingeyelashes::daydreaming::o

[Ediosa]

I must admit that threads disapprear faster than I ever imagine. hahaha

:):o:heehee:

[pamela_a]

It sounds like you have a wonderful time and had some good confidence builders. Of course I'd be confident too if I looked as good as you.

-Paula-

[alexmusic]

way to go girl, you are an inspiration to the rest of us still taking the first steps :)

[tamarav]

When you find out that people don't actually throw things at you or call you names or chase you down, it becomes more and more addictive. Confidence is a wonderful confidence builder...

You go girl! You look great.

[Nicole Erin]

Most times people don't care or give you a second look.
Once in a while someone will make a remark, it will aggrivate you, but you get over it.

The nervousness we feel our first few times wearing anything femme, after a while we get tired of being nervous and get closer to the point of just not caring what people think.

[CD Susan]

Nice post Latindancer! You are right, the more you go ut the more confidence you build. I discovered this just 10 months ago when I went out for the first time. My confidence level is now so high that I will go anywhere while dressed wihout any apprehentions at all. I agree that most people just don't care and won't say anything if they read you.

[Elise.Matei]

The more I have been going out in the afternoon, the more confidence I have been getting...

U look quite hot to me! Nice round shoulders... pretty face... Nobody seems to do a double take when I am out and about. It may be becuz I really dont care who thinks what about me. I mean, what are they gonna do tell God on me? In spite of fears I've expressed here before... everybody with and for whom I work wouldn't be THAT shocked - they all know I'm crazy anyways.

[victoriamwilliams1]

This is great:) The key is if your confident in yourself people for the most part will treat you as if you are the person your presenting yourself to be.

[Melissa Anne]

Great Post! I have found the same thing as you. My confidence has also been greatly increased in just 3 outings during the past year. Most people really don't care and will pay you no interest. Dress appropriately for the situation, hold your head high, smile and have fun. I didn't think I could ever go into public dressed without everyone stopping in their tracks, staring, and pointing at the guy in the dress. It hasn't happened yet and I've had a blast going out into the world as Melissa.

[vikki2020]

Just like compounding interest, it's amazing how your confidence builds with each outing! Especially if you are able to get out day after day.It seems you pick up from the day before, and can start the day without having to build up your confidence. I've only been able to do that a couple of times, but what a difference maker!!:daydreaming: